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Understanding Your Family of Origin Scale


Family-of-Origin Scale

Your family of origin is the family with which you spent most or all of your childhood years. This scale is designed to help you recall how that family functioned. Every family is unique and has its own ways of doing things, so there are no right or wrong answers — what matters is that you respond as honestly as you can, as you remember your family. Nothing you enter is saved or sent anywhere.

How to answer For each statement, choose how well it describes your family of origin: Strongly agree (SA) · Agree (A) · Neutral (N) · Disagree (D) · Strongly disagree (SD).

Your results

out of 200

Higher scores reflect a healthier remembered experience of your family of origin. There are no official cutoffs — use the breakdown below to notice areas of strength and areas worth reflecting on, ideally in conversation with a therapist.

Autonomy: / 100 Intimacy: / 100

Source: Hovestadt, Anderson, Piercy, Cochran & Fine (1985), A Family-of-Origin Scale, Journal of Marital and Family Therapy. This questionnaire is offered for self-reflection and is not a diagnostic instrument or a substitute for professional care.